I don't really get it

My boyfriend said something offensive to me today. Well, maybe for me? Yes, it was a little offensive. I ignored him and he kept apoligizing and said he was joking. But I still felt hurt. I want to forget about it. But it was just something laying me back. He tried to hold my hand. But i was kinda in a reject feeling towards him. Honestly, it was pretty awkward in public. We were supposed to go to some pc fair but we turned out to be "not in a mood to see anything". Later he kept saying sorry sorry. And I said do you know what you just told me and he said yea, he was just joking. After that, his expression was pretty like already in the impatient type. I was already pissed and maybe him too? I don't know. But we were only this close to have an argument but no and yea, i forgave him. If you girls were in my shoes, what do you take this for? A quarrel already? Gosh, i don't even know myself. Like what was it for?

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i felt really sorry for u. i'm currently single now, but my exbf did not treat me like this, he just lost intrest in him after we didnt see each other in 7 days...
our relationship last for 1 and a half month

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own personal view is that at times guys are insensitive..
and they din realise that it could be offensive to gers...
cheer up gal...

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I dunno how offensive it is, and does it really hurt u until u feel, there's no way for you go let it go? U dun have to forget it, just have to let it go.

In my relationship, I normally forgive if he really apologizes (doesn't have to be over n over). but, if he repeats it again, then it will be another story.

In my opinion, u gotta let it go, since he had apologized over n over. U just have to make sure that, he never repeats his mistake again

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I have the same problem too. I forgive him for many times but he still do the same mistakes. Yesterday night i quarreled with him again. So yea, he apologised again and the scene dissapeared. Sometimes i ignore him because i want him to think back the mistakes he had done. Yea, it works. He thought that im gonna leave him. Should try this out girls.

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Personally i think u should let bygone b bygone. There's nothing wrong to forgive someone. Forgiving is letting go of the pain, even though he has said something that hurt u. As most ppl would say "Forgive and forget". Think bout it Dear, it's worth, not just for him, ALSO u, urself.

=x

haaaa....ya, sometimes i think any of us might accidentally said the wrong thing at the wrong time, or else not being tactful enuff... oopz..

i think i did had times whereby my man always uttered something i dun like to hear & i gt really pissed off, then i might occasionally blurted sth tt might indirectly hurt him..ghmmm..will sit dwn & talk it out as in, certain things we dun lik to hear & y , let each oth hv a chance to expalin y he/.she contd saying as they might have their means to do so..

dun let this affect ur r/s ...a gd r.s is a lot communication... =)

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since it is a little offensive as you said, and he apologised profusely, just accept it as a blurt he didn't think it thr.