Two timing boyfriend: what to do for revenge?

I recently asked my boyfriend to step up or break up to see whether he really loved me like he said. I was feeling insecure as it was a long distance relationship and he has so many friends of the other sex. The plan back-fired as the next day he actually declared his relationship to another girl!!
Any suggestions for the best revenge on cheating boyfriends? Something subtle without embarrassing myself or land me in jail?

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hi aalia...2 b honest, im not reaaly good in english conversation..btw, ur post really attracting me..
mm..revenge yah!!! i dont think it quit smart to do...my suggestion are enjoy ur life, having fun as single lady, or make money..do sumthing that gain more profit..then u show not only to that GUY but all eyes on world..u r the smart lady!!!!!!! revenge is typical desperate women would do..so wake up babe...hehehehe

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Tq for the reply. Don't worry...i'm doing better without him and enjoying being single!!

Maybe revenge was too harsh a word to use in this context. What i really meant would probably be a little eye opening that he can't get away with cheating so easily... Even though i am over him, it really irks me that he actually could get away with cheating girls. The other girl actually forgave him even though she knows!

So, any suggestions to shake him up a bit?

Revenge

The best way to have revenge is to let him see that you're not affected by his cheating ways

By living your life to the fullest & looking fabulous everyday for yourself

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My views would however differ slightly from the others.

In my view, you could just get on with your life like they've said...
and someday when you meet him again, if he's with another gal, just go up and say hi, and say to the gal, "he's my ex-bf. I hope you open your eyes and see him for who he really is. And in all, he's just a pathetic, lonely guy that keeps cheating on gals. So beware." smile and walk away, continue with your fabulous life ahead.

I guess, the only thing to knock up a guy like him, is to put him in a shameful situation, and even better - that's the gal he has finally found "true love" with.
But then again, to be exact - I wouldn't consider this as a revenge, more likely I would think it as warning to others not to land in the same situation as me, if I were you.

Revenge? How about keeping your own dignity?

Hey Aliaa,
Was a lil freaked out when I read your woe cos the same thing happened to me. What's worse? When I was away from Malaysia studying, he fell for another girl and wouldn't admit it. He didn't realise that a woman's intuition is usually right and I had this feeling that he was cheating so i confronted him and he said i was being silly, etc. He suggested we prolong our relationship and try to 'work things out' and i said no more suffering for me. I was devastated and cried my eyes out and to my horror, he changed his msn profile pic as i was crying to HER!

OMG, can you imagine my pain?
So yea, i was hurt, his friends asked me who she was n stuff. and his FB status kept changing like every 5 minutes. It was kinda funny.
I didn't get myself a guy just to change my msn pic with. I just took abit of time to get over it. and thruout my 'recovery' i had friends who would update me: so the first was, the girl called it off. and then he was looking and also asking about me and whether I've come back to Malaysia, etc.

I even deleted him from my FB cos i really didn't want to keep getting notifications of his status changes.

Was single for about 1 1/2 years after that and lemme tell you gurl, being single is a very liberating feeling.

Am with a guy now, and he makes me feel like the luckiest person in the world to find so much love after what had happened.

So who knows? that ex of yours was just a stepping stone to something even better

Take care!

sweet revenge

hmmm....i have a few crazy ideas...duno it will work in spore:

(1) call pizza hut/mcdelivery, if they deliver in 3-4am, to his place, will pay cash upon reach his place, well, ok, to wake him up w a 'surprise meal' haaa or sorry la, w his parents

(2) break up w him cuz he's a sissy no balls man, haaa

=X

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The sweetest revenge I think is not to bother about him and this relationship.

If you and him are on Facebook, don't delete him as fwens, just keep posting pictures of you having great fun and learning new activities! Show him that you are already over him! (even if you aren't yet)