Hi Cleo & Everybody! Need Help Here...

Hi, I am just a 20 years old student in a polytechnic in Singapore.

I have this pair of big breasts which I really disliked
It causes me troubles and tears during Secondary School even till now.

I have troubles, big trouble.., finding clothes for myself.
-> I look ugly wearing round-necked tees with nice prints
-> I look fat wearing sleevless because my huge front and also trunk-like arms
-> I feel skanky wearing low cuts

I always feel sad from within, seeing my friends being fashionable and looking fresh always, whereas I always seen wearing a plain boring tops like collar tees (usually black)

I have hard time shopping for my own clothes and I hate clothes that backfired - inviting unwanted attention to my chest.

I have been miserable since Secondary School till now. I really wanted to find clothes that fit my body

:'( I really hope to receive kind advise and helpful tips from everyone here.. Especially shops that cater clothes for big bust...


Thank you

Pleasurelyours

Re: Hi Cleo & Everybody! Need Help Here...

Quote:Hi, I am just a 20 years old student in a polytechnic in Singapore.

I have this pair of big breasts which I really disliked
It causes me troubles and tears during Secondary School even till now.

I have troubles, big trouble.., finding clothes for myself.
-> I look ugly wearing round-necked tees with nice prints
-> I look fat wearing sleevless because my huge front and also trunk-like arms
-> I feel skanky wearing low cuts

I always feel sad from within, seeing my friends being fashionable and looking fresh always, whereas I always seen wearing a plain boring tops like collar tees (usually black)

I have hard time shopping for my own clothes and I hate clothes that backfired - inviting unwanted attention to my chest.

I have been miserable since Secondary School till now. I really wanted to find clothes that fit my body

:'( I really hope to receive kind advise and helpful tips from everyone here.. Especially shops that cater clothes for big bust...


Thank you

Pleasurelyours

Hi there,

I think that's a great asset of yours! You could try to be more womanly I think, maybe wearing butterfly prints dresses or V neck tops. If you are afraid of feeling skanky with low cuts, you can wear a tube or tank top inside!

Re: Hi Cleo & Everybody! Need Help Here...

Darling, first of all, learn how to embrace your body.
From your description I am sure you are a voluptuous and beautiful personality.

Sure, big chest does not mean you are any less attractive than smaller chest. Maybe you can try asking some shop assistants to suggest outfits for you or style you up.

Quote Tyra Banks "Take responsibility for yourself"

So, start from small steps. I'm like you but I have different issues. I have acne scar problems and that is a very damaging thing to my self-esteem but my sister encourage me to change and I am doing so step by step.

Don't worry about it. As long as you are comfortable with what you are wearing, there is no way others do not notice.
Or be a little aggressive, don't even bother what other people say.

Hey, they might be envious of your curves anyway.

Re: Hi Cleo & Everybody! Need Help Here...

I bet those that put you down are just jealous please!!!
Get a good bra, I believe you'll be gorgeous is everything!!!!!